Instruction Videos

I've noted before that I love second person materials (the "you do it" narrative). Unfortunately it can be very difficult to find quality material, because the "you" that the person in the video is speaking to may not coincide with you. Since they're addressing the viewer they're usually POV (point of view) videos.

There's a propensity with domination and instructional videos to call the viewer a loser or worthless, which just doesn't flow with me (some sissies might be losers, but the two are not synonymous). Although some of those videos can still be good.

And if you're hanging out on this blog you likely have at least partly similar tastes, so I'm here to share some of my favorites (there are plenty of websites around for collections of videos, like Annamalice's). Two subsets of 2nd person videos are CEI (cum eating instructions) and JOI (jerk-off instructions). If ever a sissy could feel like she's not alone, it's when there are two obscure acronyms attached to her fetishes.

Three-part Feminization

Wear a chemise and panties to bed, wear lip gloss and paint your nails. If nothing else you'll get a nice example of why you should do the Gloss assignment.

Buttplug encouragement

Loses me after the 6 minute mark, but otherwise a nice entrapment/blackmail video.

CEI spoon

Lexi Lapetina can be hit or miss. The first minute misses the mark for me, but the double-take interaction at the end can make up for it.

POV sucking

This one is one of the few 'training' videos around that are actually POV with a cock in your face, so that's why it gets my recommendation.

Of course, many sissies - like most women - do best with text and pictures, but sometimes audio and video can be absolutely enthralling. Happy viewing, sissies!

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Yuki's Years

Don't worry if something seems impossible or unthinkable right now. Time can make a lot of difference. Like going from yucky to yummy.

Of course, a bit of coaxing, prodding and encouragement never hurts (figuratively, at least :D ).

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Come Off (Assignment)

Cum is a wonderful thing. It is an adhesive, an invisible ink, a means of procreation. For some cultures (or people) it is the flavoring of choice. It's even suspected to be an anti-depressant (I think that means you know what to do the next time you're feeling a little down :D ). But for a sissy the greatest use is probably as a symbol of submission and femininity.

Macho, masculine guys are never supplicant. They never dream or hope to kneel down in front of a guy to show their ability at serving cock. They don't hope to feel the warm burst of cum splashing on their face or inside their mouth.

Remember make-off, sissy? Your assignment is very similar, with some key differences.

You've got another chance to practice your perfect, feminine make-up. You'll certainly want a minimum of lipstick (or gloss), blush, eyeshadow and something a bit more enduring like eyeliner or mascara. Be sure to give your inner sissy the time she deserves, and don't feel obligated rush to get the make-up off.

Now you're going to discover a new use for cum: as a make-up remover.

That's right, you're going to cum or (if you're a very lucky sissy) use someone else's cum to clean off your face. And to help you stay true to your assignment, you must ruin your first orgasm. That way you'll have some cum to work with and you have a better chance of controlling your bothersome other half.

(If you're not familiar with "ruining" an orgasm, this is when you stop stroking your clitty the moment before you cum. Stroke until an instant before you orgasm and then take your hand away. You'll still cum, but it will not be your usual orgasm.)

All you may use to clean off your make-up for the next 24 hours is cum. And you'll have another wonderful use for cum. It's certainly not the most healthful or efficient use of cum (and some sissies may need to ask permission if their mistress has ordered them to drink every drop), but every sissy need to experience the feeling of having dried cum all over her face (and if you might happen to need to explain why you're wearing eyeliner and why you so obviously smell like cum, that's just a side benefit).

You can always elect to not try cleaning off your make-up for the day. Cum getting in your eyes does sting, after all.

(And, as before: safety first. Even if you're cowardly male side is desperate to clean off your make-up, be very careful about rubbing your eyes. They can take the pH change from cum easily (even if it stings), but rubbing bits of powder or dust under your eyelids inadvertently when wiping your eyes can be harmful)

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2012 Resolutions (2)

It's almost the beginning of a new year (for most of the world, anyway), which means it's also time for resolutions. Goals for you to aspire to and fulfill for a full year. So yesterday and today I've got some resolution ideas for you. They'll be split between feminization and sissification.


Today is the day to pick a resolution for your own sissification throughout the year.

Every sissy aspires to pure femininity, but their end-goal as a girl can differ greatly. Some want to be cuckolded, some want to become cumsluts, some want to be obedient submissives, and others just want to be girls. Some are undecided and sample from all walks of sissydom. So your sissification goal will very much depend on you.


1. Buy a dildo and/or a butt plug.

Do you dream of sucking cock every night? Is your mind full of ideas of you dressed as a slut, taking it in each of your sissy holes? If either of those sound remotely like you, then it's time to stop putting off your destiny any longer. Buy a dildo or a buttplug (or both) and start practicing stretching and sucking every day. When you finally reach the tipping point of making your dreams come true you'll be ready on moment's notice. Plus you'll have loads of fun in the meantime.


2. Only cum once per week

As discussed previously, your head and male persona are the main obstacles preventing your sissification from progressing more rapidly. Right after he cums he wants to rub off all the makeup, turn off the hypnosis and spit out that lovely load of cum. Well it's time to limit his influence by limiting how often you masturbate to just once a week. 52 orgasms per year or fewer. It may even be time to get yourself a cage and hand off the key to someone to keep you honest. But think of the progress your feminine side will make (and how sensitive your clitty will be for each time you cum)!


3. Get and maintain a sissy tan

You don't need deep-bronzed skin. You don't even need to visit a tanning salon every day, but you are going at least 3 times per week until you get a base tan, and then once per week after that. Wearing a bikini (or bra and panties) so that you can be sure to have sissy lingerie branded onto your skin. And then in summer you can tan outside, how perfect for a blossoming sissy!


4. Get a professional manicure/pedicure at least every 3 months.

Sissies, like the girls they emulate, focus on beauty. And if a sissy's goal is simply to be the best possible girl, then she certainly has to follow suit. Many women treat themselves to manicures and pedicures for special occasions. And while many of them do them at home very week or two, beauty-conscious women often go in for professional work every few months for a day of pampering. It's time to add that to you schedule. You're going to get your nails done - professionally (although you can certainly work on them every week at home, too). And you'll surely want to build up a rapport with your nail technician, so make sure you go to the same nail salon each time.


5. Wear diapers at least once per day

Because many sissies love AB/DL, I've got an extra resolution option for them: wear a diaper at least one day per week. Of course, on the day diapers are mandatory good little sissies will only use the potty once in the morning, and then are relegated to their diaper for the rest of the day.


So there you go, sissies. It's time to pick which resolutions you want to embrace for the coming year. You'll certainly need one feminization resolution, but whether or not you have a sissification goal is up to you (of course, if it were up to me I'd say "Yes, you need to have one!" :D ).

That does it for 2011. Thanks for visiting the blog and providing feedback (also nice to see the feminization resolutions have garnered such a fast response!). I appreciate the support! So...

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Say it Sissy (Assignment)

It's true: many sissies are of few words. For some sissies it's because they're demure, good little girls; for others it's because they're face is too stuffed to give out anything but a satisfied moan. But for many sissies, it's simply because they're focused on overt things like makeup or clothes or boobs.

But how could any sissy truly hope to reach her true potential if she's too embarrassed or impatient to bring out her own natural, harmonious feminine voice?

First things first: you'll need to practice getting rid of your heavy, masculine tones. There are a few methods for doing this. And unfortunately, just talking with a high-pitched voice won't cut it. There are many videos that can help you with this and many techniques, so you'll need to find one that works. I can start you with this series start. For girls short on time there's a potentially quicker option:

• Grab a pillow (or something else to mask noise - if needed) 
• Take a deep breath 
• Cover your mouth/face with the pillow and then gargle with your voice until it's at the lowest pitch you can get to without it cracking
• Say, "The wicked witch of the west" repeatedly (30 times or more)
• Repeat it many more times while trying to sound like an old person 
• Try to maintain that adjustment while speaking normal sentences.

Of course, each sissy will learn differently, so you'll have to experiment. It may be difficult to judge what you actually sound like, so you may want to use a microphone and Windows Sound Recorder or something like Audacity to check yourself.


Then it's time to practice! For the next 6 hours after you practice try to keep in tune. If you lead a very lonely life or are still hiding your sissy nature, it may be time for a soliloquy about how much of a girl you aspire to be. Or perhaps your love of cock or of women. You may also want to practice some suitable songs.

And since sex and expression are a focal point for sissies, the most important part of your assignment: every time you masturbate you are going to moan and whimper like cock-crazed sissy every time you rub and stroke your clitty. This is surely the part that many sissies will excel at (they may not be able to speak like a girl, but many of them can certainly moan like one).

Of course, you've been practicing your voice, so you'll certainly want to throw in some exclamations about how much you love things on you and inside of you.


Try not to wake the neighbors, sissy :D

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Bare (Sissy Lifestyle)

Assignments are great - I have fun making them and doing them (and they seem to be a favorite for people not stopping by for a quick fap - not to knock fapping, it's necessary with an unrestrained sissy's sexual drive). But there's only so much you can do with a task that lasts one or two days that any sissy can easily complete. So today is the first Sissy Lifestyle assignment.

Sissy Lifestyle assignments are for sissies that have come to embrace their inner girl. And while you might not be ready to shout from the rooftops that you are a sissy, you're ready to invest more of your time and money into her needs (after all, if you spend $50 on clothes in a month, how fair is it that she gets nothing?).

Now you see it...

Since most sissies are diving into the depths of winter and since this is the first sissy lifestyle assignment, we'll start easy: shaving. Nothing to buy, nothing to risk. All you'll need is a little time.

Women generally have finer body hair than men. It is also thinner and grows in fewer places. For instance, women do not generally get hair on their breasts, whereas a hairy chest is often a sign of manliness (and many men have hair around their nipples). Underarm and leg shaving is all the rage throughout the world (for women - so that means for you too, sissy!) - whether for aesthetic, athletic or religious reasons.

For this sissy lifestyle assignment you are going to spend the winter keeping yourself shaved like a woman in the most inconspicuous places. The first day will certainly be the most daunting, since you'll have the most work (as you end up shaving more often and with more skill it will go faster and require less clean up). You can remove the hair any way you like, but I very much recommend against an electric razor (it's easier to get razor burn and the shave isn't close).

Now you don't...

Shaving is best done in or right after a shower or bath, when your pores are open and the hair follicles are most accessible. Since most sissies don't have the funds or courage to go for full facial hair removal you might as well start there and shave normally. For the purposes of this assignment you are going to shave your legs and your underarms - the two (and, in the winter, very clandestine) parts of your body destined for feminization first. If you're very hairy, or a more courageous sissy, you should also shave your chest and back.

(I haven't included the pubic area since that is up to you - a woman's or sissy's decision to shave down below is her own preference (but may I recommend a heart shape? :D)).

Leg shaving can be very tricky, so you may want to consult a wiki. Remember that if you have a fresh, sharp blade you really don't need any pressure, just pull the blade gently and smoothly along the skin. And if you have sensitive skin or skin prone to in-grown hairs, shave with the grain multiple times instead of shaving against the grain (for the legs, this would be downwards instead of upwards).

Making it a Lifestyle

Of course, now you'll need a normal shaving schedule, sissy!

Many women shave their legs every 3 to 5 days since leg hair stubble becomes more noticeable after about 72 hours. You'll certainly want to match their feminine routine. Every 3 (or 4 if you want to set it to specific days of the week) you are going to shave your armpits and your legs. And you're going to continue that routine until April.

Of course, by then you may be so locked in your routine that you won't have any inclination to stop. After all, you could always claim you're shaving for other reasons in addition to becoming a better sissy!

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Rolling for More Femininity (Game)

It's time to break out your pink sissy dice and roll once again. Or if you haven't rolled yet, you can start with the first rolling game. You've got a chance at 6 simple tasks any sissy can do!

There's no reason to give in to paranoia like "what if I get injured on my way to work and get stuck in the hospital." If you're in the hospital your loved ones' first question will not be about your pretty toenails. Don't let your cowardly male side subvert your inner sissy's joy!

Happy rolling, sissies!

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Instruction Videos

I've noted before that I love second person materials (the "you do it" narrative). Unfortunately it can be very difficult to find quality material, because the "you" that the person in the video is speaking to may not coincide with you. Since they're addressing the viewer they're usually POV (point of view) videos.

There's a propensity with domination and instructional videos to call the viewer a loser or worthless, which just doesn't flow with me (some sissies might be losers, but the two are not synonymous). Although some of those videos can still be good.

And if you're hanging out on this blog you likely have at least partly similar tastes, so I'm here to share some of my favorites (there are plenty of websites around for collections of videos, like Annamalice's). Two subsets of 2nd person videos are CEI (cum eating instructions) and JOI (jerk-off instructions). If ever a sissy could feel like she's not alone, it's when there are two obscure acronyms attached to her fetishes.


Three-part Feminization
Wear a chemise and panties to bed, wear lip gloss and paint your nails. If nothing else you'll get a nice example of why you should do the Gloss assignment.

Buttplug encouragement
Loses me after the 6 minute mark, but otherwise a nice entrapment/blackmail video.

CEI spoon
Lexi Lapetina can be hit or miss. The first minute misses the mark for me, but the double-take interaction at the end can make up for it.

POV sucking
This one is one of the few 'training' videos around that are actually POV with a cock in your face, so that's why it gets my recommendation.


Of course, many sissies - like most women - do best with text and pictures, but sometimes audio and video can be absolutely enthralling. Happy viewing, sissies!

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Say it Sissy (Assignment)

It's true: many sissies are of few words. For some sissies it's because they're demure, good little girls; for others it's because they're face is too stuffed to give out anything but a satisfied moan. But for many sissies, it's simply because they're focused on overt things like makeup or clothes or boobs.

But how could any sissy truly hope to reach her true potential if she's too embarrassed or impatient to bring out her own natural, harmonious feminine voice?

First things first: you'll need to practice getting rid of your heavy, masculine tones. There are a few methods for doing this. And unfortunately, just talking with a high-pitched voice won't cut it. There are many videos that can help you with this and many techniques, so you'll need to find one that works. I can start you with this series start. For girls short on time there's a potentially quicker option:

• Grab a pillow (or something else to mask noise - if needed) 
• Take a deep breath 
• Cover your mouth/face with the pillow and then gargle with your voice until it's at the lowest pitch you can get to without it cracking
• Say, "The wicked witch of the west" repeatedly (30 times or more)
• Repeat it many more times while trying to sound like an old person 
• Try to maintain that adjustment while speaking normal sentences.

Of course, each sissy will learn differently, so you'll have to experiment. It may be difficult to judge what you actually sound like, so you may want to use a microphone and Windows Sound Recorder or something like Audacity to check yourself.


Then it's time to practice! For the next 6 hours after you practice try to keep in tune. If you lead a very lonely life or are still hiding your sissy nature, it may be time for a soliloquy about how much of a girl you aspire to be. Or perhaps your love of cock or of women. You may also want to practice some suitable songs.

And since sex and expression are a focal point for sissies, the most important part of your assignment: every time you masturbate you are going to moan and whimper like cock-crazed sissy every time you rub and stroke your clitty. This is surely the part that many sissies will excel at (they may not be able to speak like a girl, but many of them can certainly moan like one).

Of course, you've been practicing your voice, so you'll certainly want to throw in some exclamations about how much you love things on you and inside of you.


Try not to wake the neighbors, sissy :D

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2012 Resolutions (2)

It's almost the beginning of a new year (for most of the world, anyway), which means it's also time for resolutions. Goals for you to aspire to and fulfill for a full year. So yesterday and today I've got some resolution ideas for you. They'll be split between feminization and sissification.


Today is the day to pick a resolution for your own sissification throughout the year.

Every sissy aspires to pure femininity, but their end-goal as a girl can differ greatly. Some want to be cuckolded, some want to become cumsluts, some want to be obedient submissives, and others just want to be girls. Some are undecided and sample from all walks of sissydom. So your sissification goal will very much depend on you.

1. Buy a dildo and/or a butt plug.

Do you dream of sucking cock every night? Is your mind full of ideas of you dressed as a slut, taking it in each of your sissy holes? If either of those sound remotely like you, then it's time to stop putting off your destiny any longer. Buy a dildo or a buttplug (or both) and start practicing stretching and sucking every day. When you finally reach the tipping point of making your dreams come true you'll be ready on moment's notice. Plus you'll have loads of fun in the meantime.

2. Only cum once per week

As discussed previously, your head and male persona are the main obstacles preventing your sissification from progressing more rapidly. Right after he cums he wants to rub off all the makeup, turn off the hypnosis and spit out that lovely load of cum. Well it's time to limit his influence by limiting how often you masturbate to just once a week. 52 orgasms per year or fewer. It may even be time to get yourself a cage and hand off the key to someone to keep you honest. But think of the progress your feminine side will make (and how sensitive your clitty will be for each time you cum)!


3. Get and maintain a sissy tan

You don't need deep-bronzed skin. You don't even need to visit a tanning salon every day, but you are going at least 3 times per week until you get a base tan, and then once per week after that. Wearing a bikini (or bra and panties) so that you can be sure to have sissy lingerie branded onto your skin. And then in summer you can tan outside, how perfect for a blossoming sissy!


4. Get a professional manicure/pedicure at least every 3 months.

Sissies, like the girls they emulate, focus on beauty. And if a sissy's goal is simply to be the best possible girl, then she certainly has to follow suit. Many women treat themselves to manicures and pedicures for special occasions. And while many of them do them at home very week or two, beauty-conscious women often go in for professional work every few months for a day of pampering. It's time to add that to you schedule. You're going to get your nails done - professionally (although you can certainly work on them every week at home, too). And you'll surely want to build up a rapport with your nail technician, so make sure you go to the same nail salon each time.


5. Wear diapers at least once per day

Because many sissies love AB/DL, I've got an extra resolution option for them: wear a diaper at least one day per week. Of course, on the day diapers are mandatory good little sissies will only use the potty once in the morning, and then are relegated to their diaper for the rest of the day.


So there you go, sissies. It's time to pick which resolutions you want to embrace for the coming year. You'll certainly need one feminization resolution, but whether or not you have a sissification goal is up to you (of course, if it were up to me I'd say "Yes, you need to have one!" :D ).

That does it for 2011. Thanks for visiting the blog and providing feedback (also nice to see the feminization resolutions have garnered such a fast response!). I appreciate the support! So...

Happy New Year, sissies! 

May the next year bring you excitement, 

joy and all the best a sissy could want!

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Come Off (Assignment)

Cum is a wonderful thing. It is an adhesive, an invisible ink, a means of procreation. For some cultures (or people) it is the flavoring of choice. It's even suspected to be an anti-depressant (I think that means you know what to do the next time you're feeling a little down :D ). But for a sissy the greatest use is probably as a symbol of submission and femininity.

Macho, masculine guys are never supplicant. They never dream or hope to kneel down in front of a guy to show their ability at serving cock. They don't hope to feel the warm burst of cum splashing on their face or inside their mouth.

Remember make-off, sissy? Your assignment is very similar, with some key differences.

You've got another chance to practice your perfect, feminine make-up. You'll certainly want a minimum of lipstick (or gloss), blush, eyeshadow and something a bit more enduring like eyeliner or mascara. Be sure to give your inner sissy the time she deserves, and don't feel obligated rush to get the make-up off.

Now you're going to discover a new use for cum: as a make-up remover.

That's right, you're going to cum or (if you're a very lucky sissy) use someone else's cum to clean off your face. And to help you stay true to your assignment, you must ruin your first orgasm. That way you'll have some cum to work with and you have a better chance of controlling your bothersome other half.

(If you're not familiar with "ruining" an orgasm, this is when you stop stroking your clitty the moment before you cum. Stroke until an instant before you orgasm and then take your hand away. You'll still cum, but it will not be your usual orgasm.)

All you may use to clean off your make-up for the next 24 hours is cum. And you'll have another wonderful use for cum. It's certainly not the most healthful or efficient use of cum (and some sissies may need to ask permission if their mistress has ordered them to drink every drop), but every sissy need to experience the feeling of having dried cum all over her face (and if you might happen to need to explain why you're wearing eyeliner and why you so obviously smell like cum, that's just a side benefit).

You can always elect to not try cleaning off your make-up for the day. Cum getting in your eyes does sting, after all.

(And, as before: safety first. Even if you're cowardly male side is desperate to clean off your make-up, be very careful about rubbing your eyes. They can take the pH change from cum easily (even if it stings), but rubbing bits of powder or dust under your eyelids inadvertently when wiping your eyes can be harmful)

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Art for Regina

Art class - a perfect time to express your femininity and for you to stop hiding behind your pathetic, transparent attempts at being "masculine".

Obviously we'll need some art supplies. To start with, you'll need a marker or a printer, some paper and a scissors (or something else to cut paper). Heavier stock paper will work better in the long run.

Now either print the image below or draw a suitably feminine shape of your own (none of that "unisex" bullshit for you to try to veil the fact that you're a sissy). You'll only need one shape, but you'll be cutting it out, so don't do anything too fancy.

Make it about 3.5 centimeter (1.5 inches) tall. This is pretty small, but if you make a mistake start over - the shape had better be fucking spot on once you're done. Plenty of opportunity to give your nimble, feminine hands working.

Now that you have your design make sure it stays perfectly flat. You wrinkle it or fold it and you'd damn well make a new one, sissy. Carefully write your name on it so people will know whose it is. Then just leave it sit out somewhere safe and out of the way.

After it has had some suitable public appreciation we'll get started with the next part. Make sure you have some glue or you know how to make papier maché paste.

The summer is young sissy. I'm going to make sure we've gotten those misplaced ideas that you're anything but a sissy out of your head soon enough.

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Moving

Your song needs to be from this year. Maybe you like retro clubs and like to be a hipster that listed to classic rock, but in order to be trendy and fluid at modern clubs you'll need to work with something more modern.

It needs to be sung by a girl. You are not some masculine, chiseled baritone - you are a sissy girl and you're going to practice singing like a girl. Girly lyrics are a definite plus; referring to yourself as a girl or queen in song will always help in the long-term.

Lastly it needs to be upbeat, with a fast tempo. Something you can move and dance to. None of that shuffling shit. Get down, swing your ass and move your arms (with the rhythm, obviously).

If you're not up on modern hits and pop music you can always try one of these:

Love on Top - Beyonce

Call me Maybe - Carly Rae Jepsen

Bad Girls - M.I.A.

 And then you're going to practice singing the song you pick at least once per day (as feminine-sounding as you can - I expect progressive improvement). You'll also dance to it, but you're also going to dance to other songs as well -- at least 15 minutes of sexy, sensual dancing in rhythm with the music you choose. You can start by watching videos (you don't need to stick with modern music for practicing dancing Britney Spears, Beyonce, Shakira and many others are good places to start, whether or not you like the music). But you will dance and practice what you see.

I expect you to work at this and become a passable dancer for cheering on your favorite athlete(s) in the last day of the Olympics, but you're going to keep practicing with new songs and new dances. Clubbing and dancing is the favorite weekend activity of many young women, so it's time you learned how much you love it too (the fact that it will help you get fit, move more sensually and maybe act a bit sluttier is just a bonus).



This is an excellent starting step to get you outside, confident enough to dance and hangout in front of other people. Now get out there and start shaking that moneymaker, sissy.

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2014 Resolutions

It's still January, so you still have time to decide on a sissy resolution for the year. There are plenty of good ones. If you have the hair for it, growing it out is always a great option. Getting a little bit more femme by plucking your eyebrows also provides a good long-term investment in your girliness. But here are some other ideas to help with your feminization and sissification:


 1. Give up the sugary drinks and snacks.

Nothing is harder on your figure than soda, sweetened tea and super sweet energy drinks. They're a lot of empty calories you don't need and prevent you from looking your best. So start replacing your drinks with water, (soy) milk, coffee or tea (fennel or spearmint tea in particular might be useful for sissies seeking a little Giving up soda cold turkey can be difficult; you may need to ween yourself off of the sweetened drinks by allowing yourself a treat when you complete a goal (or just one for the weekend). Not buying the drinks in the first place is the safest way to make sure you don't accidentally relapse. But if you can hold off completely you'll be on your way to a slimmer, healthier body for your inner sissy. And of course, the money you save could go to a nice dress or that perfect pair of shoes...


 2. Buy a chastity cage.

A chastity cage for your clitty is a great investment. It lets you play risk/reward games with yourself and, more importantly, helps you avoid the unwarranted shame and doubt that often creeps in whenever a sissy cums. As a bonus for cum-loving sissies, holding off on masturbation for 2-3 days will make sure you have a nice big surprise waiting when (or if :D ) you do get the chance to cum.

It may be difficult to wear a chastity cage for prolonged periods at first, but after a few times for a couple hours and then a couple days you'll be on your way to a hornier, girlier you. If you don't have someone to hang onto your key for you, freezing it into a block of ice always helps keep you honest.


3. Start wearing a bra for the whole day at least once per week

That's right - lift and support. From the start of your day until you hop into bed, you'll wear a bra for the whole day at least once per week. The kind of bra is up to you (it is your resolution after all): wonder bras, sports bras, push-up bras... Your choice of style is almost as limitless as your choice of color and material.

Still got most of your sissy-ness hidden away in a closet? Unless you're wearing white shirts and planning on getting wet you've got nothing to worry about (especially with a slim, tight fitting sports bra). In terms of "easy to hide", most sissies think panties or pantyhose are the safest option. But ask yourself this: How many plumbers cracks have you seen on an average day? And compare that to how many bare shoulders you have seen. Unless you're spending an awful lot of time at the beach, you'll notice that you never really see anyone's upper chest or shoulders. Even if you're hesitant, you've got nothing to fear. Except for maybe the trips to the lingerie store.


4. Perpetual pedicure

If a bra seems like it's too much, perhaps it's time to go a bit lower? Keep your toenails in tip-top shape the entire year. Make sure they're polished at least 24 days per month (keep in mind that darker pigments can lead to discoloration, so you may want to just go clear and shiny every once and a while). By the time you get to summer, you might be so disappointed no one gets to see your handiwork that you'll want to wear sandals just to show off!

As with most resolutions, it's best to set a schedule so that you develop a routine you can follow (for example, make Sunday pedicure day where you clean up and apply a fresh, new color).

Remember that your resolution should push your boundaries but not exceed them. If it's a resolution you can't keep it's not much of a resolution. Cutting out sugary drinks or only cumming once per week are good budget resolutions any sissy can do without worry.

Time to get out there and show your resolve to be a better, beautiful sissy in 2014!

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Bare (Sissy Lifestyle)

Assignments are great - I have fun making them and doing them (and they seem to be a favorite for people not stopping by for a quick fap - not to knock fapping, it's necessary with an unrestrained sissy's sexual drive). But there's only so much you can do with a task that lasts one or two days that any sissy can easily complete. So today is the first Sissy Lifestyle assignment.

Sissy Lifestyle assignments are for sissies that have come to embrace their inner girl. And while you might not be ready to shout from the rooftops that you are a sissy, you're ready to invest more of your time and money into her needs (after all, if you spend $50 on clothes in a month, how fair is it that she gets nothing?).

Now you see it...

Since most sissies are diving into the depths of winter and since this is the first sissy lifestyle assignment, we'll start easy: shaving. Nothing to buy, nothing to risk. All you'll need is a little time.

Women generally have finer body hair than men. It is also thinner and grows in fewer places. For instance, women do not generally get hair on their breasts, whereas a hairy chest is often a sign of manliness (and many men have hair around their nipples). Underarm and leg shaving is all the rage throughout the world (for women - so that means for you too, sissy!) - whether for aesthetic, athletic or religious reasons.

For this sissy lifestyle assignment you are going to spend the winter keeping yourself shaved like a woman in the most inconspicuous places. The first day will certainly be the most daunting, since you'll have the most work (as you end up shaving more often and with more skill it will go faster and require less clean up). You can remove the hair any way you like, but I very much recommend against an electric razor (it's easier to get razor burn and the shave isn't close).

Now you don't...

Shaving is best done in or right after a shower or bath, when your pores are open and the hair follicles are most accessible. Since most sissies don't have the funds or courage to go for full facial hair removal you might as well start there and shave normally. For the purposes of this assignment you are going to shave your legs and your underarms - the two (and, in the winter, very clandestine) parts of your body destined for feminization first. If you're very hairy, or a more courageous sissy, you should also shave your chest and back.

(I haven't included the pubic area since that is up to you - a woman's or sissy's decision to shave down below is her own preference (but may I recommend a heart shape? :D)).

Leg shaving can be very tricky, so you may want to consult a wiki. Remember that if you have a fresh, sharp blade you really don't need any pressure, just pull the blade gently and smoothly along the skin. And if you have sensitive skin or skin prone to in-grown hairs, shave with the grain multiple times instead of shaving against the grain (for the legs, this would be downwards instead of upwards).

Making it a Lifestyle

Of course, now you'll need a normal shaving schedule, sissy!

Many women shave their legs every 3 to 5 days since leg hair stubble becomes more noticeable after about 72 hours. You'll certainly want to match their feminine routine. Every 3 (or 4 if you want to set it to specific days of the week) you are going to shave your armpits and your legs. And you're going to continue that routine until April.

Of course, by then you may be so locked in your routine that you won't have any inclination to stop. After all, you could always claim you're shaving for other reasons in addition to becoming a better sissy!

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A Day Off (Assignment)

Oh, not from being a sissy. You and me both know that never happens. Even when you're not dressed in soft, pretty panties and dolled up in your best make-up you're still a sissy.

No, I mean making your male side take a day or two off from ruining your sissy development. Most sissies fap at least once per day (some very horny sissies do so much more often), but immediately after you orgasm your sissy desires immediately subside. Your inner sissy's drive to slurp and suck the cum from your hand; the desire to keep your perfect make-up on all day; the will to go out in public dressed completely as your true feminine self - all that goes away when you cum.

It's incredibly difficult for you to stay a sissy cum slut or even a good sissy maid right after you cum.


So for the next two days indulge any sissy fantasy you have. Wear your panties to work for the first time. Paint your nails. Go to sleep fully made-up. Play dress-up with everything you have (even try folding or taping some of your clothes to look more feminine if your wardrobe is a little sparse). If you're a very outgoing sissy you may even want to go outside and find something interesting to do. But however you spend your time do not cum.

You can even rub your clitty, so long as you have the restraint to keep your inner sissy in control and not making cummies.

And, as a bonus for sissy cum sluts in the audience, after two days there will be plenty more cum for you to enjoy!

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