Instruction Videos

I've noted before that I love second person materials (the "you do it" narrative). Unfortunately it can be very difficult to find quality material, because the "you" that the person in the video is speaking to may not coincide with you. Since they're addressing the viewer they're usually POV (point of view) videos.

There's a propensity with domination and instructional videos to call the viewer a loser or worthless, which just doesn't flow with me (some sissies might be losers, but the two are not synonymous). Although some of those videos can still be good.

And if you're hanging out on this blog you likely have at least partly similar tastes, so I'm here to share some of my favorites (there are plenty of websites around for collections of videos, like Annamalice's). Two subsets of 2nd person videos are CEI (cum eating instructions) and JOI (jerk-off instructions). If ever a sissy could feel like she's not alone, it's when there are two obscure acronyms attached to her fetishes.

Three-part Feminization

Wear a chemise and panties to bed, wear lip gloss and paint your nails. If nothing else you'll get a nice example of why you should do the Gloss assignment.

Buttplug encouragement

Loses me after the 6 minute mark, but otherwise a nice entrapment/blackmail video.

CEI spoon

Lexi Lapetina can be hit or miss. The first minute misses the mark for me, but the double-take interaction at the end can make up for it.

POV sucking

This one is one of the few 'training' videos around that are actually POV with a cock in your face, so that's why it gets my recommendation.

Of course, many sissies - like most women - do best with text and pictures, but sometimes audio and video can be absolutely enthralling. Happy viewing, sissies!

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Yuki's Years

Don't worry if something seems impossible or unthinkable right now. Time can make a lot of difference. Like going from yucky to yummy.

Of course, a bit of coaxing, prodding and encouragement never hurts (figuratively, at least :D ).

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Come Off (Assignment)

Cum is a wonderful thing. It is an adhesive, an invisible ink, a means of procreation. For some cultures (or people) it is the flavoring of choice. It's even suspected to be an anti-depressant (I think that means you know what to do the next time you're feeling a little down :D ). But for a sissy the greatest use is probably as a symbol of submission and femininity.

Macho, masculine guys are never supplicant. They never dream or hope to kneel down in front of a guy to show their ability at serving cock. They don't hope to feel the warm burst of cum splashing on their face or inside their mouth.

Remember make-off, sissy? Your assignment is very similar, with some key differences.

You've got another chance to practice your perfect, feminine make-up. You'll certainly want a minimum of lipstick (or gloss), blush, eyeshadow and something a bit more enduring like eyeliner or mascara. Be sure to give your inner sissy the time she deserves, and don't feel obligated rush to get the make-up off.

Now you're going to discover a new use for cum: as a make-up remover.

That's right, you're going to cum or (if you're a very lucky sissy) use someone else's cum to clean off your face. And to help you stay true to your assignment, you must ruin your first orgasm. That way you'll have some cum to work with and you have a better chance of controlling your bothersome other half.

(If you're not familiar with "ruining" an orgasm, this is when you stop stroking your clitty the moment before you cum. Stroke until an instant before you orgasm and then take your hand away. You'll still cum, but it will not be your usual orgasm.)

All you may use to clean off your make-up for the next 24 hours is cum. And you'll have another wonderful use for cum. It's certainly not the most healthful or efficient use of cum (and some sissies may need to ask permission if their mistress has ordered them to drink every drop), but every sissy need to experience the feeling of having dried cum all over her face (and if you might happen to need to explain why you're wearing eyeliner and why you so obviously smell like cum, that's just a side benefit).

You can always elect to not try cleaning off your make-up for the day. Cum getting in your eyes does sting, after all.

(And, as before: safety first. Even if you're cowardly male side is desperate to clean off your make-up, be very careful about rubbing your eyes. They can take the pH change from cum easily (even if it stings), but rubbing bits of powder or dust under your eyelids inadvertently when wiping your eyes can be harmful)

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2012 Resolutions (2)

It's almost the beginning of a new year (for most of the world, anyway), which means it's also time for resolutions. Goals for you to aspire to and fulfill for a full year. So yesterday and today I've got some resolution ideas for you. They'll be split between feminization and sissification.


Today is the day to pick a resolution for your own sissification throughout the year.

Every sissy aspires to pure femininity, but their end-goal as a girl can differ greatly. Some want to be cuckolded, some want to become cumsluts, some want to be obedient submissives, and others just want to be girls. Some are undecided and sample from all walks of sissydom. So your sissification goal will very much depend on you.


1. Buy a dildo and/or a butt plug.

Do you dream of sucking cock every night? Is your mind full of ideas of you dressed as a slut, taking it in each of your sissy holes? If either of those sound remotely like you, then it's time to stop putting off your destiny any longer. Buy a dildo or a buttplug (or both) and start practicing stretching and sucking every day. When you finally reach the tipping point of making your dreams come true you'll be ready on moment's notice. Plus you'll have loads of fun in the meantime.


2. Only cum once per week

As discussed previously, your head and male persona are the main obstacles preventing your sissification from progressing more rapidly. Right after he cums he wants to rub off all the makeup, turn off the hypnosis and spit out that lovely load of cum. Well it's time to limit his influence by limiting how often you masturbate to just once a week. 52 orgasms per year or fewer. It may even be time to get yourself a cage and hand off the key to someone to keep you honest. But think of the progress your feminine side will make (and how sensitive your clitty will be for each time you cum)!


3. Get and maintain a sissy tan

You don't need deep-bronzed skin. You don't even need to visit a tanning salon every day, but you are going at least 3 times per week until you get a base tan, and then once per week after that. Wearing a bikini (or bra and panties) so that you can be sure to have sissy lingerie branded onto your skin. And then in summer you can tan outside, how perfect for a blossoming sissy!


4. Get a professional manicure/pedicure at least every 3 months.

Sissies, like the girls they emulate, focus on beauty. And if a sissy's goal is simply to be the best possible girl, then she certainly has to follow suit. Many women treat themselves to manicures and pedicures for special occasions. And while many of them do them at home very week or two, beauty-conscious women often go in for professional work every few months for a day of pampering. It's time to add that to you schedule. You're going to get your nails done - professionally (although you can certainly work on them every week at home, too). And you'll surely want to build up a rapport with your nail technician, so make sure you go to the same nail salon each time.


5. Wear diapers at least once per day

Because many sissies love AB/DL, I've got an extra resolution option for them: wear a diaper at least one day per week. Of course, on the day diapers are mandatory good little sissies will only use the potty once in the morning, and then are relegated to their diaper for the rest of the day.


So there you go, sissies. It's time to pick which resolutions you want to embrace for the coming year. You'll certainly need one feminization resolution, but whether or not you have a sissification goal is up to you (of course, if it were up to me I'd say "Yes, you need to have one!" :D ).

That does it for 2011. Thanks for visiting the blog and providing feedback (also nice to see the feminization resolutions have garnered such a fast response!). I appreciate the support! So...

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Say it Sissy (Assignment)

It's true: many sissies are of few words. For some sissies it's because they're demure, good little girls; for others it's because they're face is too stuffed to give out anything but a satisfied moan. But for many sissies, it's simply because they're focused on overt things like makeup or clothes or boobs.

But how could any sissy truly hope to reach her true potential if she's too embarrassed or impatient to bring out her own natural, harmonious feminine voice?

First things first: you'll need to practice getting rid of your heavy, masculine tones. There are a few methods for doing this. And unfortunately, just talking with a high-pitched voice won't cut it. There are many videos that can help you with this and many techniques, so you'll need to find one that works. I can start you with this series start. For girls short on time there's a potentially quicker option:

• Grab a pillow (or something else to mask noise - if needed) 
• Take a deep breath 
• Cover your mouth/face with the pillow and then gargle with your voice until it's at the lowest pitch you can get to without it cracking
• Say, "The wicked witch of the west" repeatedly (30 times or more)
• Repeat it many more times while trying to sound like an old person 
• Try to maintain that adjustment while speaking normal sentences.

Of course, each sissy will learn differently, so you'll have to experiment. It may be difficult to judge what you actually sound like, so you may want to use a microphone and Windows Sound Recorder or something like Audacity to check yourself.


Then it's time to practice! For the next 6 hours after you practice try to keep in tune. If you lead a very lonely life or are still hiding your sissy nature, it may be time for a soliloquy about how much of a girl you aspire to be. Or perhaps your love of cock or of women. You may also want to practice some suitable songs.

And since sex and expression are a focal point for sissies, the most important part of your assignment: every time you masturbate you are going to moan and whimper like cock-crazed sissy every time you rub and stroke your clitty. This is surely the part that many sissies will excel at (they may not be able to speak like a girl, but many of them can certainly moan like one).

Of course, you've been practicing your voice, so you'll certainly want to throw in some exclamations about how much you love things on you and inside of you.


Try not to wake the neighbors, sissy :D

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Home is where your mouth is

At least, if you're an obedient cocksucking sissy.

Don't worry sissies, your chances of being forced to become a submissive sissy slut if you travel abroad are pretty slim...

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Uncorked

Bottled up and repressed for so long there's bound to be some pressure.

Never confine your inner sissy, or she may show her face when it's least convenient.

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What to expect

It's a very real danger of being a part-time sissy.

Many sissies immediately recant their girlhood the moment they cum. This is why caging and chastity are so good at keeping sissies honest and making them better girls - their inner sissy keeps so much more control.

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Squealing

Happy St. Nick Day, sissies (well, the part of the holiday where you usually get stuff, anyway)! Hopefully you're keeping up with your new lifestyle! All I have for your sissy stockings is a caption (despite the ridiculous span between this and the last roulette I am still (very slowly) working at it).

And as always, I appreciate the feedback! I'm not sure how much "more like this" will actually breed more like that (individual taste is very random), but thanks nonetheless - it let's me know people are around and enjoying (or occasionally disapproving) things!

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Faint

Voices in your head...but something's strange...

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Instruction Videos

I've noted before that I love second person materials (the "you do it" narrative). Unfortunately it can be very difficult to find quality material, because the "you" that the person in the video is speaking to may not coincide with you. Since they're addressing the viewer they're usually POV (point of view) videos.

There's a propensity with domination and instructional videos to call the viewer a loser or worthless, which just doesn't flow with me (some sissies might be losers, but the two are not synonymous). Although some of those videos can still be good.

And if you're hanging out on this blog you likely have at least partly similar tastes, so I'm here to share some of my favorites (there are plenty of websites around for collections of videos, like Annamalice's). Two subsets of 2nd person videos are CEI (cum eating instructions) and JOI (jerk-off instructions). If ever a sissy could feel like she's not alone, it's when there are two obscure acronyms attached to her fetishes.


Three-part Feminization
Wear a chemise and panties to bed, wear lip gloss and paint your nails. If nothing else you'll get a nice example of why you should do the Gloss assignment.

Buttplug encouragement
Loses me after the 6 minute mark, but otherwise a nice entrapment/blackmail video.

CEI spoon
Lexi Lapetina can be hit or miss. The first minute misses the mark for me, but the double-take interaction at the end can make up for it.

POV sucking
This one is one of the few 'training' videos around that are actually POV with a cock in your face, so that's why it gets my recommendation.


Of course, many sissies - like most women - do best with text and pictures, but sometimes audio and video can be absolutely enthralling. Happy viewing, sissies!

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Jenna is Screwed

Overly protective lab partner or backstabbing bitch...well, it doesn't much matter to Jenna any more.

Aside from the roulettes I think this is the image with the most text so far. The idea of cum causing random effects is nothing new, but I'm stealing it from one of my favorite erotica stories, "Nymphomania".

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Say it Sissy (Assignment)

It's true: many sissies are of few words. For some sissies it's because they're demure, good little girls; for others it's because they're face is too stuffed to give out anything but a satisfied moan. But for many sissies, it's simply because they're focused on overt things like makeup or clothes or boobs.

But how could any sissy truly hope to reach her true potential if she's too embarrassed or impatient to bring out her own natural, harmonious feminine voice?

First things first: you'll need to practice getting rid of your heavy, masculine tones. There are a few methods for doing this. And unfortunately, just talking with a high-pitched voice won't cut it. There are many videos that can help you with this and many techniques, so you'll need to find one that works. I can start you with this series start. For girls short on time there's a potentially quicker option:

• Grab a pillow (or something else to mask noise - if needed) 
• Take a deep breath 
• Cover your mouth/face with the pillow and then gargle with your voice until it's at the lowest pitch you can get to without it cracking
• Say, "The wicked witch of the west" repeatedly (30 times or more)
• Repeat it many more times while trying to sound like an old person 
• Try to maintain that adjustment while speaking normal sentences.

Of course, each sissy will learn differently, so you'll have to experiment. It may be difficult to judge what you actually sound like, so you may want to use a microphone and Windows Sound Recorder or something like Audacity to check yourself.


Then it's time to practice! For the next 6 hours after you practice try to keep in tune. If you lead a very lonely life or are still hiding your sissy nature, it may be time for a soliloquy about how much of a girl you aspire to be. Or perhaps your love of cock or of women. You may also want to practice some suitable songs.

And since sex and expression are a focal point for sissies, the most important part of your assignment: every time you masturbate you are going to moan and whimper like cock-crazed sissy every time you rub and stroke your clitty. This is surely the part that many sissies will excel at (they may not be able to speak like a girl, but many of them can certainly moan like one).

Of course, you've been practicing your voice, so you'll certainly want to throw in some exclamations about how much you love things on you and inside of you.


Try not to wake the neighbors, sissy :D

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2012 Resolutions (2)

It's almost the beginning of a new year (for most of the world, anyway), which means it's also time for resolutions. Goals for you to aspire to and fulfill for a full year. So yesterday and today I've got some resolution ideas for you. They'll be split between feminization and sissification.


Today is the day to pick a resolution for your own sissification throughout the year.

Every sissy aspires to pure femininity, but their end-goal as a girl can differ greatly. Some want to be cuckolded, some want to become cumsluts, some want to be obedient submissives, and others just want to be girls. Some are undecided and sample from all walks of sissydom. So your sissification goal will very much depend on you.

1. Buy a dildo and/or a butt plug.

Do you dream of sucking cock every night? Is your mind full of ideas of you dressed as a slut, taking it in each of your sissy holes? If either of those sound remotely like you, then it's time to stop putting off your destiny any longer. Buy a dildo or a buttplug (or both) and start practicing stretching and sucking every day. When you finally reach the tipping point of making your dreams come true you'll be ready on moment's notice. Plus you'll have loads of fun in the meantime.

2. Only cum once per week

As discussed previously, your head and male persona are the main obstacles preventing your sissification from progressing more rapidly. Right after he cums he wants to rub off all the makeup, turn off the hypnosis and spit out that lovely load of cum. Well it's time to limit his influence by limiting how often you masturbate to just once a week. 52 orgasms per year or fewer. It may even be time to get yourself a cage and hand off the key to someone to keep you honest. But think of the progress your feminine side will make (and how sensitive your clitty will be for each time you cum)!


3. Get and maintain a sissy tan

You don't need deep-bronzed skin. You don't even need to visit a tanning salon every day, but you are going at least 3 times per week until you get a base tan, and then once per week after that. Wearing a bikini (or bra and panties) so that you can be sure to have sissy lingerie branded onto your skin. And then in summer you can tan outside, how perfect for a blossoming sissy!


4. Get a professional manicure/pedicure at least every 3 months.

Sissies, like the girls they emulate, focus on beauty. And if a sissy's goal is simply to be the best possible girl, then she certainly has to follow suit. Many women treat themselves to manicures and pedicures for special occasions. And while many of them do them at home very week or two, beauty-conscious women often go in for professional work every few months for a day of pampering. It's time to add that to you schedule. You're going to get your nails done - professionally (although you can certainly work on them every week at home, too). And you'll surely want to build up a rapport with your nail technician, so make sure you go to the same nail salon each time.


5. Wear diapers at least once per day

Because many sissies love AB/DL, I've got an extra resolution option for them: wear a diaper at least one day per week. Of course, on the day diapers are mandatory good little sissies will only use the potty once in the morning, and then are relegated to their diaper for the rest of the day.


So there you go, sissies. It's time to pick which resolutions you want to embrace for the coming year. You'll certainly need one feminization resolution, but whether or not you have a sissification goal is up to you (of course, if it were up to me I'd say "Yes, you need to have one!" :D ).

That does it for 2011. Thanks for visiting the blog and providing feedback (also nice to see the feminization resolutions have garnered such a fast response!). I appreciate the support! So...

Happy New Year, sissies! 

May the next year bring you excitement, 

joy and all the best a sissy could want!

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Come Off (Assignment)

Cum is a wonderful thing. It is an adhesive, an invisible ink, a means of procreation. For some cultures (or people) it is the flavoring of choice. It's even suspected to be an anti-depressant (I think that means you know what to do the next time you're feeling a little down :D ). But for a sissy the greatest use is probably as a symbol of submission and femininity.

Macho, masculine guys are never supplicant. They never dream or hope to kneel down in front of a guy to show their ability at serving cock. They don't hope to feel the warm burst of cum splashing on their face or inside their mouth.

Remember make-off, sissy? Your assignment is very similar, with some key differences.

You've got another chance to practice your perfect, feminine make-up. You'll certainly want a minimum of lipstick (or gloss), blush, eyeshadow and something a bit more enduring like eyeliner or mascara. Be sure to give your inner sissy the time she deserves, and don't feel obligated rush to get the make-up off.

Now you're going to discover a new use for cum: as a make-up remover.

That's right, you're going to cum or (if you're a very lucky sissy) use someone else's cum to clean off your face. And to help you stay true to your assignment, you must ruin your first orgasm. That way you'll have some cum to work with and you have a better chance of controlling your bothersome other half.

(If you're not familiar with "ruining" an orgasm, this is when you stop stroking your clitty the moment before you cum. Stroke until an instant before you orgasm and then take your hand away. You'll still cum, but it will not be your usual orgasm.)

All you may use to clean off your make-up for the next 24 hours is cum. And you'll have another wonderful use for cum. It's certainly not the most healthful or efficient use of cum (and some sissies may need to ask permission if their mistress has ordered them to drink every drop), but every sissy need to experience the feeling of having dried cum all over her face (and if you might happen to need to explain why you're wearing eyeliner and why you so obviously smell like cum, that's just a side benefit).

You can always elect to not try cleaning off your make-up for the day. Cum getting in your eyes does sting, after all.

(And, as before: safety first. Even if you're cowardly male side is desperate to clean off your make-up, be very careful about rubbing your eyes. They can take the pH change from cum easily (even if it stings), but rubbing bits of powder or dust under your eyelids inadvertently when wiping your eyes can be harmful)

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Scintillating

Well if Regina is going to be active, I can stop being so lazy and make sure she doesn't overburden you with assignments bent on steaming you towards a sissy point-of-no-return. Where was I? Perhaps this caption will help explain things...

Or maybe it is a clever ploy to distract you with a caption while I make an excuse about university classes and work and random other projects. Hope all you sissies (and sissy-lovers that just happen to be stopping by) are having an excellent summer so far! (...Or winter if you happen to be a bit more of a southern sissy)

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2014 Resolutions

It's still January, so you still have time to decide on a sissy resolution for the year. There are plenty of good ones. If you have the hair for it, growing it out is always a great option. Getting a little bit more femme by plucking your eyebrows also provides a good long-term investment in your girliness. But here are some other ideas to help with your feminization and sissification:


 1. Give up the sugary drinks and snacks.

Nothing is harder on your figure than soda, sweetened tea and super sweet energy drinks. They're a lot of empty calories you don't need and prevent you from looking your best. So start replacing your drinks with water, (soy) milk, coffee or tea (fennel or spearmint tea in particular might be useful for sissies seeking a little Giving up soda cold turkey can be difficult; you may need to ween yourself off of the sweetened drinks by allowing yourself a treat when you complete a goal (or just one for the weekend). Not buying the drinks in the first place is the safest way to make sure you don't accidentally relapse. But if you can hold off completely you'll be on your way to a slimmer, healthier body for your inner sissy. And of course, the money you save could go to a nice dress or that perfect pair of shoes...


 2. Buy a chastity cage.

A chastity cage for your clitty is a great investment. It lets you play risk/reward games with yourself and, more importantly, helps you avoid the unwarranted shame and doubt that often creeps in whenever a sissy cums. As a bonus for cum-loving sissies, holding off on masturbation for 2-3 days will make sure you have a nice big surprise waiting when (or if :D ) you do get the chance to cum.

It may be difficult to wear a chastity cage for prolonged periods at first, but after a few times for a couple hours and then a couple days you'll be on your way to a hornier, girlier you. If you don't have someone to hang onto your key for you, freezing it into a block of ice always helps keep you honest.


3. Start wearing a bra for the whole day at least once per week

That's right - lift and support. From the start of your day until you hop into bed, you'll wear a bra for the whole day at least once per week. The kind of bra is up to you (it is your resolution after all): wonder bras, sports bras, push-up bras... Your choice of style is almost as limitless as your choice of color and material.

Still got most of your sissy-ness hidden away in a closet? Unless you're wearing white shirts and planning on getting wet you've got nothing to worry about (especially with a slim, tight fitting sports bra). In terms of "easy to hide", most sissies think panties or pantyhose are the safest option. But ask yourself this: How many plumbers cracks have you seen on an average day? And compare that to how many bare shoulders you have seen. Unless you're spending an awful lot of time at the beach, you'll notice that you never really see anyone's upper chest or shoulders. Even if you're hesitant, you've got nothing to fear. Except for maybe the trips to the lingerie store.


4. Perpetual pedicure

If a bra seems like it's too much, perhaps it's time to go a bit lower? Keep your toenails in tip-top shape the entire year. Make sure they're polished at least 24 days per month (keep in mind that darker pigments can lead to discoloration, so you may want to just go clear and shiny every once and a while). By the time you get to summer, you might be so disappointed no one gets to see your handiwork that you'll want to wear sandals just to show off!

As with most resolutions, it's best to set a schedule so that you develop a routine you can follow (for example, make Sunday pedicure day where you clean up and apply a fresh, new color).

Remember that your resolution should push your boundaries but not exceed them. If it's a resolution you can't keep it's not much of a resolution. Cutting out sugary drinks or only cumming once per week are good budget resolutions any sissy can do without worry.

Time to get out there and show your resolve to be a better, beautiful sissy in 2014!

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An Early Start

Sometimes a little push in the right direction is all you need.

Even if it takes a bit encouragement, getting started on sissydom early can pay off in the end. So follow the age-old advice: Don't put off until tomorrow what you can do today.

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More and More Patience

Good things come to those who wait. Even if you might not look forward to them at first.

Maybe a bit like this caption :D

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Sissy Body Art (Assignment)

Perhaps you may be up for some more sun-baked sissy body art. Unfortunately, many sissies are still faced with sour weather. Plus, suntans have a lack of fidelity. They can also be difficult for many sissies to apply. Fair-skinned sissies often risk sunburns and dry skin; ebony sissies may have trouble getting their art to show up at all.

Luckily there's another option: drawn-on body art. (And for the sissies that have already taken the next step and gotten an actual feminine tattoo: Way to go girl! Your dedication to girliness is an inspiration!)

Find a fine-tipped permanent marker (or my favorite for that extra feminine touch for a sissy: a lipstain) and pick out a design you like. For sissies with limited artistic experience, a simple shape will work best (the shoulder star like Bianca here, a Venus symbol, a bow). In a pinch, a short word also works well. Capital letters are easier to write neatly - even if you've been practicing your girly handwriting, writing on yourself may be difficult. If you can't think of anything else, labelling yourself SISSY would be just perfect!

 But you don't want to hide your art away!

 

You have to show it off, sissy. If you're not quite brave enough to go with a fully bared piece of body art, you're going to go as close as you can: Your shoulder/upper arm, lower thigh or ankle (hidden, but just barely). No need to worry if you have concerns about your drawing skills - you've got plenty of places elsewhere on your body to practice where no one will see! You can try to draw or trace a pattern in pen and then fill it in with a more permanent solution later on. Or try free-hand if you're a bit more confident (short strokes will work better as you flesh out your design, the marker will naturally bleed over a bit into the surrounding skin).

Once you're done, you'll have a neat little girly reminder that's just a wrinkle or ruffle of clothing away. A raised sleeve, a lowered sock and you'll be able to show off your girly art!

Most permanent ink will wash off within a few days (depending on your marker, it may become much less visible after just one wash - feel free to touch it up as you see fit). If you have sensitive skin, test out a marker first to make sure you won't have any unfortunate rashes or uncomfortable events to ruin your artistic experience.

Most importantly - have fun and express your inner sissy!

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